Supportive Steps: Helping Your College Student Finish the Semester Strong

As the semester winds down and your college student prepares for finals, it’s natural to want to check in, cheer them on, and stay involved. Spring semester at Drake is an exciting time to be on campus, but there can also be anxiety about summer plans, internships, or the next step.  Here are some thoughtful ways to maintain a strong connection while honoring their space:

1. Reach Out—But Respect Their Rhythm

A quick message or call to say “thinking of you” goes a long way, even if you don’t always get an immediate reply. Keep communication open without overwhelming them. Many students appreciate texts or short check-ins rather than long phone calls during busy times.

2. Encourage, Don’t Pressure

Ask how they’re feeling about finals, projects, or next steps, and offer encouragement without adding stress. They’re likely juggling a lot—just knowing you’re in their corner can provide huge emotional support.

3. Send a Little Love

A small care package, handwritten note, or digital gift card for coffee or takeout can brighten their day and remind them of home. Personal touches mean the most.

4. Ask Open-Ended Questions

Instead of “How are your grades?” try “What’s been the most interesting part of this semester?” or “How are you managing everything right now?” These open conversations often lead to deeper, more meaningful dialogue.

5. Be a Safe Landing Spot

Your student may need to vent, seek advice, or just decompress. Being a good listener—without jumping in to solve everything—helps them feel heard and empowered.

6. Look Ahead Together

As the semester ends, you might start discussing summer plans, internships, or simply time at home. Keep it collaborative—your student will appreciate being treated as a partner in the planning.

Final Thought:

If you find that your college student is struggling, please remind them that there is support for them.  Access & Success is here to help!